Gyöngyvér Pakurár : Beliefs - Your Invisible Chains 2. 🌟
- Balance Mentor

- Aug 17
- 2 min read
What if you're not afraid of failure, but of what you're truly capable of? 💫 What if it's not your fears, but your light that's holding you back?
In the first part of my writing on beliefs, we talked about our negative beliefs. Those inner voices that whisper, "you're not good enough," "you won't succeed," "why even try?".
But what if sometimes we're not afraid of being small – but of what we could truly achieve? What if your biggest blocking beliefs are not connected to darkness, but to your light? 🌱
The Invisible Web of "Positive" Beliefs 🌐
Perhaps an inner voice sounds like this:
- "If I truly lived my talent, I would be too much."
- "If I were truly happy, what would others think?"
- "What if it turns out I am destined for more than I've taken on so far?"
These are not discouraging statements – at first, they might even seem motivating. But in reality, they harbor hidden fears:
- of visibility,
- of responsibility,
- of having to change something if you finally start believing in yourself.
💡 Because if you take seriously what lives within you…
Then there are no more excuses. Then you should start living the life you deeply know is meant for you. And that can be scary. You can no longer hide behind the victim role. You can't point fingers at others. Because if you are talented, valuable, capable – then you must take action. And that is often more frightening than any failure.
✨ What can you do with this fear?
You don't have to conquer it. You don't have to be perfect. Just allow yourself to start trusting the person who lives within you – quietly but consistently.
You can start with a single question: 👉 What would happen if I finally allowed myself the life I truly want to live?
At first, you might only be able to say yes to it in your mind. But even that is releasing a link in the chain. You might only see your own strength today as a distant light. But know: that is also you. And it's no coincidence you're drawn to it. Desire doesn't lie. It just shows you where it's worth stepping.
Maybe it's not your negative beliefs holding you back… But the thought of what would happen if you truly started believing in yourself. If you really said, "I want more." If you allowed the life that has been beating within you for so long to live. If you no longer hid – neither behind fear, nor excuses, nor conformity.
Because when you start living your light, it can be scary at first. But in reality, it's the first step towards true freedom. ✨
What if, for the first time, you said yes to the version of yourself that's been waiting for you? What are you saying yes to within yourself today? Because sometimes it's enough to say it – and the chain begins to loosen. Allow yourself a conscious and harmonious life. 🌈
Wishing you wonderful days, with love:
Gyöngyvér Pakurár
Sports and Life Coach ⛹️♀️💼
Life Experience Mentor 🌟





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